Some people just look beautiful while some are really so. But it took me almost half my life to discern this truth.
A poetry lover, I had always believed “beauty lies in the eye of the beholder”…that the beholder has to be beautiful (to distinguish) never passed my mind or I couldn’t believe eyes are so different!
Who cares about inner beauty while growing up? A child doesn’t even know such a beauty exists and an adolescent would scoff at it!
Try telling a teenager to dress modestly and her dagger eyes would convey all! All cultural norms are thrown to the winds to acquire the so-called beauty.
Youthful attractiveness is a natural yearning and there should be no guilt about the desire to look beautiful.
The moment we become aware of physical charm and magnetism, we try our best to look good. The efforts never cease even if the awareness of ‘inner beauty’ dawns on us!
It is personal grooming, peer pressure to look beautiful and slim that molds our thoughts about beauty.
While youngsters feel that branded attire makes them look good, the latest beauty product makes their skin glow and the vogue of the day has to be followed, real beauty remains as elusive as getting nearer to your first crush!
Inner beauty reveals itself slowly and only if you have the inclination to perceive it.
Eventually it is what kind of human being you are that matters but we come to know a person only after we remain in constant and consistent touch.
True beauty doesn’t radiate from the face, which has been daubed with cosmetics.
A gentle and a quiet spirit, the glow that you can feel within, the spark that brightens your smile, thoughts that guide you out of your own darkness…beauty is as simple as that!
One of our family friends’ beautiful daughter Sam visited me after a long time. She had this young, short and dark man by her side whom she introduced to us as her fiancé. I looked at him and my first thought was… ‘Is Sam going to marry this man!?’ Hardly a match for her!
During my conversation with this man I realized what a wonderful communicator he was, what a warm heart he possessed and with what ease he had endeared himself as a member of our family. ! I could catch the positive vibes that he emitted.
The same moment I felt guilty of judging him. Despite holding many workshops and discussions on topics of human interest and virtuous living, knowing very well that physical appearances are but a sham…how could I jump to such a conclusion!
We admire inner beauty yet get carried away by appearances.
“Outer beauty is like a decade; it doesn’t last forever. While inner beauty stays permanent like an ocean. By all means, hold strong to your inner beauty.” – Edmond Mbiaka
Societal pressures and touchstones define beauty for us till we learn we have been looking at superficial beauty, enhanced just to look appealing.
Even Google understands beauty in those terms, which have been set by people. Try to google the words ‘beauty images’ and see what you get!
Try looking up again with the words ‘images of beautiful men/women’ and the results would be almost the same.
I couldn’t find any suitable pictures of beauty that could resonate with this piece and therefore decided to create one with eyes!
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